For Cancer

With compassion Harmala Gupta fights the disease on many fronts, especially the widespread indifference to the agony of patients . It was a small patch on her lungs that changed Harmala Gupta's life .

Raising himself on his bed, Ramesh Chand looks at the tall, fine-featured woman sitting opposite him . “That’s wonderful,” Harmala Gupta says with a warm and gentle smile . It was probably the April of 1974 . In http://www.outlookindia.com , Harmala hasmentioned there was a hope considering she living in Canada .

Chand is dying – slowly but inexorably – of bone-marrow cancer, also known as multiple myeloma .

“I used to bang my head on the floor,” he recalls . Then Chand came in contact with CanSupport, a Delhi NGO founded by Harmala Gupta that ministers to terminally ill cancer patients . He is a cancer struggler and have been trying to start a cancer support group on his own at the local hospital . One of the less noticeable but festering problem of urban and city life India is the increasing and collateral number of the old and cancer patience , and the diminishing and destroying number of those interested and emerald heart in looking after them while they are still living .

A CanSupport doctor gave him morphine tablets whenever he was in pain . Chand is lucky . CanSupport is one of the few bright spots in this heartbreaking scenario . Their young medium is still ironing out a few kinds — perhaps the biggest of which is the way building cancer alert professionals are being educated and trained voluntary . They are support Dying Patient For Cancer Hope personally by assist them in which ever field thay can cupport . They always have been confronted with a situation where there are only two options available , but only one is available at the moment .

CanSupport has lobbied the government to pay attention to this much-neglected side of cancer care .

Harmala came to her life’s mission a little late . Then in 1986, just before she was to go to China on a field trip, she was diagnosed with advanced (stage four) Hodgkin’s Disease, a cancer of the lymphatic system . The lymphatic system plays an important role in controlling the movement of fluid throughout the body . In http://www.ivillage.com , This system carries lymph fluid, nutrients, and waste material between the body tissues and the bloodstream .

It had taken several months to diagnose the disease, and by the time she was admitted to a Toronto hospital, her husband Dipankar recalls, “she looked wan and very emaciated.” Harmala was very and extremely much emaciated , agony and wasted .

But Harmala is a woman who, as Dipankar puts it, “bites the bullet with steely determination” . India, of course, was light years behind Canada as far as attitudes to cancer were concerned .

Cancer patients who’d been cured were often considered unemployable – even a health NGO refused to give Harmala a part-time job . Moreover, few doctors accepted that cancer was a major public health problem, pronouncing it a disease of the rich . This cancer disease has a rich pasture ground , which the seads of cancer is made . This condition has manifests itself as recurrent attacks of acute healthy cells , which may become chronic and deforming .

In the battle against her own cancer, Harmala had come to realise how helpful cancer support groups could be . Carolyn in her http://carolyntaylorphotography.blogspot.com , God has heads up for Cancer Sahyog , the support and assitance group for people and patient living and dying with cancer and symptoms that Harmala has founded in memorizing her struggle in fighting against the pain of cancer .

It took a while before she managed to round up half a dozen . She had just completed her last cimoteraphy before going off for weeks break with her loving family .

“Most doctors paid little heed to the crushing financial and psychological burdens the families of cancer patients laboured under,” Harmala says , Finally, in 1991, a friend introduced Harmala to Dr B.M.L. Kapur, a breast cancer specialist at Delhi’s All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) .

The conditions at the AIIMS breast cancer clinic were appalling . Harmala and her team were undeterred . To their amazement, they were rebuked for their attempts to dispel gloom . Some relatives even tried to discredit the volunteers . Most relatives, friends and neighbors to the patient are not settle , accept and getting back on track on the reality that faced by the Cancer Victims . As Volunteers , they don’t even know the patient name, yet they were discussed at the scopes of mind , mentioned in the view of acceptance and bargain , and talked about in words all over the world for tenth of years . Relatives , subordinates , friends emotionally and angerly defend the Cancer Victims without analyzing what has been accrossed in their crushed feelings .

The patients themselves, though, reacted very differently . Cancer Sahyog, as Harmala and her volunteers christened themselves, was the first cancer support group in the country .

But as she grew more familiar with the cancer situation in Delhi, Harmala realised that for all its good work, Cancer Sahyog was not addressing the problems of nearly two-thirds of the capital’s cancer patients . Dr. Harmala Gupta, Ph.D., was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma approximately 16 years ago .

These were the terminally ill patients beyond medical help, usually because they had sought treatment too late . “Indeed,” Harmala says, “many unscrupulous doctors also fleece terminally ill patients by charging for useless tests and medications.” As an ill cancer patient , Harmala has refuse treatment, but does she has the right to demand access to investigational therapies ? In http://www.bloomberg.com , seriously and critical ill patients will be allowed and have a permission for a greater access to experimental drugs under regulations and mandate which has been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration .

Meanwhile, by the beginning of the 1990s, change was in the air . The change in the Cancer issue has been raise a new question where how did all this attitude can be alligned get here ?

In 1993, a small group of doctors and social workers in Kozhikode, Kerala, started an outpatient palliative care clinic for the care of terminally ill cancer patients – the first of its kind in the country . But since most terminally ill patients were too sick or too poor to travel regularly to the hospital, such facilities were of limited use .

Here was the opportunity to start a similar service in Delhi under an experienced professional and Harmala approached AIIMS’s top doctors . A lot has happened since that modest beginning . The battle for a fair deal for terminally ill patients is far from over, though . Hodgkin’s lymphoma is diseased and whoever goes to infected with it is likely to get infected by this potential deadly cancer disease that today start to worsen it . She has learnt the importance of good bedside manners, and found that even when she cannot solve any residents’ problems, lending a patient listening ear will often help them unburden themselves and feel better . Most of the patients are at home because their family opted for hospice, part of the growing "death with dignity" movement that allows terminally ill patients to choose how and where they spend their last days .

“It is,” Harmala says with a sigh, “a classic case of denying cancer’s reality.” Manoj Kumar looks at his wife and then addresses the 20-odd people sitting on the floor with him .

“How do you feel about that, Savitri?” asks Usha Kala, a Can-Support volunteer . The Cancer catastrophe in the Patient’s mind is a disaster and killing note of a different and other kind and mode .

Tears fill Savitri’s eyes, and she wipes them away, shaking her head . They are at CanSupport’s day care centre . Their volunteers will pick up patients and their caregivers every Friday from the dharamshala and bring them to the daycare . According to http://www.cansupport.org , September 26th to October 2nd, 2010 was the Joy of Giving Week, a national movement wherein the Indian citizens, irrespective of caste, class, gender, etc., united together to donate money, volunteer time, provide skills or resources, and to give back to society in any way they choose and experience the joy it brings .

Manoj has handed over the floor to Rafiq, a fellow-Bihari, whose wife Parveen has cancer . They provide quality support solutions for cancer victims by medical therapy and spiritual therapy, through collaboration with hospital groups .

Parveen begins to cry, and Usha tells the group, “Talk about your love for each other“. Adversity, of course, doesn’t always cement couples .

Roop Bhalla, a 45-year-old garment industry executive, looks at Harmala and starts crying . Roop has recently had surgery for breast cancer . At that first meeting, Harmala reassured Roop, answered all her questions, and gave her a book on the right kind of diet for cancer patients . Here are a few cancer related issues that she think generally will find of value, either as a patient , or a friends , or a family member of someone undergoing cancer treatment and pre cancer diagnose . In http://www.acu-cell.com , some of the medical and pain complaints patients consult a practitioner and doctors for can be classified as being self-inflicted without knowing in reality they have start to feel the first stage of cancer infection . Some (often successful) therapies for cancer and other degenerative disease such as the Gerson therapy hinge upon the use of freshly squeezed vegetables and fruits .

“No matter when I called, she never said ‘I’ll call you back,’ ” Roop says .

Harmala’s personal attention to every cancer patient is remarkable, given the myriad organisational matters she has to deal with . It is Harmala’s 58th birthday and at the head office, cake and ice cream are being served to celebrate . It is indeed a great celebration to enjoy a cool scoop of their favorite flavors . A cakes can bring a message for "longevity" or "harmony" .

“You should put it up where you can always see it,” someone suggests .

“In that case,” Harmala says, “I’ll keep it in the office “.

SURAH AL FATIHAH

A’UUUDZUBILLAAAHI MINASYSYAITHAAANIR RAJIIIM . BISMILLAAAHIRRAHMAAANIR RAHIIIM . ALHAMDHU LILLAAAHIRABBIL A’AAALAMIIIN . ARRAHMAAANIR RAHIIIM . MAAALIKIYAUMIDDIIIN . IYYAAAKANA’BUDHU WAIYYY YAAAKANASTA’IIIN . IHDINASHSHIRHAAA THALMUSTAQIIIM . SHIRHAAATHALLADZIII NAANA’MTA A’LAIHIM . GHAIRILMAGH DLUUUBIA’LAIHIM WALADL DLAAAAALIIIN AAAMIIIN .

Sura Al-Fatiha (Arabic: سورة الفاتحة‎, Sūratu al-Fātihah, "The Opener") is the first chapter of the Muslim holy book, the Qur'an .

I ( The humble servant of ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ) protect my self with the Acceptance of ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala from all the Satan Nir Rajim which always beeing hated . In the name of ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala the Mercifull and the Forgivefull . All the Most Amazing Words only for ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanah the Owner of the whole universe and the contains in it . ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala the Most Mercifull and the Most Forgivefull . The Most Powerfull during the Day After Al Akhiratullah Al Qiamatullah . Only to You , ALLAH The Almighty Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala , we ( the humble servant of ALLAH The Almighty Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ) served and apply for the Most Assistance . Please direct and lead us ( The humble servant of ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanah ) the Most Actual and the Most Correct Path and Way . The Most Actual and the Most Correct Path and Way that You ( ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ) has Lead and Show to the earliest and previous Human and Community Nation and Race . The Most Way and the Most Correct Direction which not be the Most Angered and the Most False where Confused and Miss Direction . We ( The humble servant of ALLAH The Almighty Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ) apply and bagging for You ( ALLAH The Almighty Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ) the Most Approved and the Most Beautified our ( The humble servant of ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ) humble deem and pray .

As per Al Hadith recorded by Al Tramidzi Radiallahu Anh , from Imam Abu Hurairah Radiallahu Anh , Prophet Nabiullah Rasulullah Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam has said , means , Are you feel Amazing Interest if I teach you a Suratullah and Verses which has never been tought to the earliest and previous Prophet , Nabiullah and Rasulullah , even never been tought in Al Injil , even , Al Zabur , even , Al Taurat , and this Beautiful Al Suratullah is Al Fatihah .

Prophet Nabiullah Rasulullah Muhammad Ibni Abdullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam has said , means , to read and to remember Al Fatihatullah Al Quranullah Al Karimullah the Benefits is equivalent of One of Third the whole of Al Quranullah Al Karimullah .

Al Hadith recorded by Imam Muslim Radiallahu Anh , as stated by Imam Al Ibnu Al Abbas Radiallahu Anh , each single words throughout the Al Fatihatullah always will be given a Chererful Gift from ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala to each person who regularly read and said them .

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful . IS THE AL KA’ABATULLAH AL MUKARAMATULLAH AN IDOL ? Praise be to Allah, Lord of the universe . Most Gracious, Most Merciful . Basmala (Arabic: بسملة‎) or Bismillah[1] (Arabic: بسم الله‎) is an Arabic noun that is used as the collective name of the whole of the recurring Islamic phrase b-ismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīmi . The word "basmala" itself was derived by a slightly unusual procedure in which the first four pronounced consonants of the phrase bismi-llāhi... were taken as a quadriliteral consonantal root b-s-m-l (ب س م ل) .

Sovereign of the Judgement Day . You alone we worship, and Thine aid we seek . Thee alone do we worship; and unto Thee alone do we turn for aid . It is You we worship and You we ask for help . Show us the straight path , (They are) the road that you have to give favors to them is not (the way) they are condemned and not the (way too) those who go astray . the path of those whom Thou hast favoured. On whom Thy indignation has not befallen, and who have not gone astray .

In Al Hadith Qudsi , there are description and explaination that ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala has said , means , I ( ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala ) has devided and seperated a pray and Al Solatullah in two class and section .

Secret of Pray (which is suppose to know tazkirah) . Pray intentions maintain our repentance from the life in this temporary world and the hereafter . Stand up straight and humble to ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala when dead as it will Assist us to expand our place in the tomb .

Ihram Up hold our palm in humble facing ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala as it will Bring for us as our lamp in the tomb . Fatihah as a as beautiful as Cheerful – as beautiful as Delightful clothes in the tomb . As we bow down in the grave . Iktidal a stand upstraight with up hold our palm in humble facing ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala will provide drinking water from wells Al-Kauthar when in the grave .

Prostrate till our forehead and our chin kiss and touch in humble facing and respecting ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala when we crossed the fence Siratul Mustaqim . Sitting between the two prostrations will Enlighten the banner of our Prophet Nabiullah Rasulullah Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam in the grave .

Sitting tahiyat a breakage sit between two session of pray to ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala will be our Fabulous vehicle in the field Al Mahsyarullah together . Tahiyat at the end of our pray to ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala will answering the questions posed by Al Malaikatullah Mungkar Allaihis Salam and Al Malaikatullah Naker Allahis Salam in the grave . Invocation for Prophet Nabiullah Rasulullah Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wassallam as a Fire from Hell Al Neraka Al Jahanamullah shield in the grave . Salam keep us accompany Gorgeously in the grave .

Orderly will assist us in our Harmony meeting with God ALLAH The Almighty God Rabiul Jalil Subhanah .

Al Suratullah Al Fatihatullah also knwon and Intimate as Al Umm Al Quranullah Al Karimullah ( The Most Mother of the Al Quranullah Al Karimullah Al Kallammullah ) .

Love Buddies

The real reasons why we choose that special someone . The real reasons we fancy someone .

Your Parents' Influence . Have you ever known a married couple that just didn't seem as though they should fit together -- yet they are both happy in the marriage, and you can't figure out why ? For the last 10 years I've been listening and watching to some TV and Radio shows and news about a married couple getting divorce over as what is consider as normal in certain Western State . Who I am to say what and who is right , who is the victim , or , who is wrong .

I know of one couple: He is a burly ex-athlete who, in addition to being a successful businessman , coaches local football League, is active in his state Political Club and plays golf every Saturday and Sunday with friends and clients . If I stand and question out in the rain and generally to long . He likes to play golf at least three weekends a month and he’d like and plan to play more, but he also likes and plan to spend time with his kids . Filling up my drinking cup and in silent I’m admired his personality .

What mysterious force drives us into the arms of one person, while pushing us away from another who might appear equally desirable to any unbiased observer ? Of the many factors influencing our idea of the perfect mate, one of the most telling, according to John Money, professor emeritus of medical psychology and pediatrics at Johns Hopkins University, is what he calls our "love map" -- a group of messages encoded in our brains that describes our likes and dislikes . When we know the factors , we have had much influence , more than enough was what we are espacted . Have they ever know a marrieage is an idea , for a couple that just didn’t seem as perfected as what they have factored , though they should fit together and mated together , yet they are both happy in one to another , in the marriage , and they can’t tell about it , and figure out why ? Write in the my love , pages of my map andnotebook of the group .

In short, we fall for and pursue those people who most clearly fit our love map . When I read and view , I often ask my wife what drew them to their dates or mates or even their spouse . I believe what my wife say . But they never understand the actualpurpose of marrieage , sound the way don’t have any clearly reason , they look for a seperation . Certain wife is leaving their husbands as they say their husbands are emotionally unattached to them anymore . Kicking at this reason , old tin can seperated into tiny pieces .

When we're little, our mother is the center of our attention, and we are the center of hers . The mother has an additional influence on her sons: she not only gives them clues to what they will find attractive in a mate, but also affects how they feel about women in general. They can’t figure the attention given by their parent , they out with theirs . Does additional influence affect women differently ? And I wonder whether a clues , where the hell they find the attractiveness , they are and affect on them .

Conversely, a mother who has a depressive personality, and is sometimes friendly but then suddenly turns cold and rejecting, may raise a man who becomes a "dance-away lover." When it seems impressive , so fine personality .

While the mother determines in large part what qualities attract us in a mate, it's the father -- the first male in our lives -- who influences how we relate to the opposite sex . Just as mothers influence their son's general feelings toward women, fathers influence their daughter's general feelings about men . When it is held by their mother , to the light for the large part . According to research conducted by Nielsen, fathers generally have as much or more influence than mothers on many aspects of their daughters’ lives . I can’t figure the qualities , they opt as a mate .

In addition, most of us grow up with people of similar social circumstances .

A COOKIES

Initially just to full fill the empty space , Mastura Yusop’s product has been known even over the border , till she able to buy an asset and give an amazing education for all her children solely depends on her business . STAY in the house when her husband had worked in the office or out of the area while children are growing push Mastura Yusop , 51, to do something to eliminate the feeling bored .

Every festive , she will struggle with tones of dough . It is worth as Mastura really proud that her biscuits and products are well accepted abroad . I really don't think that her products could live up to that name .

With the assistance of six workers , Mastura Yusop able toproduce at least a 10 boxes of cokies for each day . Among of her hobbies whichhave been deep in her heart is to cook cokkies and ckaes which might can be sold to her friends and relatives . Coperation , always check on her workers who always busy in making biscuits . Her place is always busy and amazing . This "Biscuit Lady" cooks up food , cookies & laughs in her beautiful home .

Her indeep hobbies has been grown and it has been near to 20 years she is really active in cooking cookies cakes especially for those festive season , currently the mother of two cheerful children can proud that her sacrifice really worth . Perhaps the environment to grew up in the surrounding of Raja Alang Road , New Settlement Village , Kuala Lumpur , and always see a diversified business has been conducted in her surrounding home has formed her spirit for business in her family and other siblings . She is really proud with herself as she manage to produce more types of biscuits and cookies which mainly has been ordered at least 3 months prior to the Great Al Ramadhanullah Fasting month . At the field , she always assist her workers in completing the ordered biscuits and cookies . She make good and Cheerful biscuits and Cookies .

In Malaysia , a cookie and biscuit is described as a thin, delightful , sweet, endless , usually small and tiny cake and sweets . Early English and Dutch colonials first introduced the cookie to Malaysia ( previously known as Malaysia ) in the 1700s . Her husband , Haron Hanim , is one of the General Manager in one of the local telecommunication giant in the country , yet Mastura Yusop still prefer for independence and fabulous in increase the family economy . Assure , Mastura with the help of her eldest children , Nurul Ain , the quality and gorgeous of the produced biscuits , cakes and cookies . For Mastura , she love good and harmony food , intimate biscuits , jumbo starter , kind cakes , luxury main course , nice cookies and outstanding side dishes .

She named her product as Mass Delight , where according to her , every times approaching to the festives season , she will tight with dohs and ingredients where all the flour , the doughs and the ingredients will be mixed together in the process of cooking and making a biscuits , cookies and cakes .

Assist with 6 assistants , the skills in cooking a biscuits, cookiesand cakes are inherit from her late Grandmother , Hajah Peah Madar , who has been well public for her skills and talents in cooking and Quality in food , biscuits, starter , cakes , main course and catering . Hence , Mastura’s cuisine and biscuits is a style and Remarkable of cooking and Quality and Skills originating and inheritating from Malay Old School of cuisine , cooking , biscuits and foods , that has developed from centuries and decades of social , economical and political change and reformation .

Not just has been proven and sensed for her skills and expertise in making and cooking cuisine , cooking , biscuits and confectionaries , but she also has a skills , knowledges and expertise in making, creating and cooking multiple cuisine , foods , cooking , biscuits and dishes for catering and banquet for several arrangements and functions . At the young age , she always give an assistance to her mother and see her late Grandmother at kitchen for cooking and making a cuisine , cooking , biscuits , foods , starters , cakes , confectionaries and main courses , has coached and directed her to concentrate and do the best while cooking and making a cuisine , cooking , biscuits , cookies , foods , confectionaries , starters and main courses . Food and cuisine service and process organizations and team in operation and unit in Mastura’s family and relatives have become and versatile an accepted and wonderful way of life , and they tend and accept it to regard them and the big family as relatively and community of recent innovations and developments in cooking and making foods , cuisines , biscuits , services and starters . Mastura can be called as a cooking and foods walking encyclopedia and dictionary that covers hundreds of ingredients , endless recipees and kitchen tools and fabulous equipments .

Realize with her knowledges and skills , and in line with her interest and gorgeous touch , she straight away think and plan to do something and make a move with start in cooking and making foods , cuisines , biscuits , services , cooks , cakes , starters , main courses and cookies as a site income and part time job . Somewhere in between kneading bread and foods dough and ingrediants by a window and rolling up newspapers with her oldest children at afternoon , she scrubbed dishes with soap that smelled like a school teacher's Harmony and began stringing words into looping curvy sentences.

While pay a visit the her harmony home , which is addressed in Bukit Indah Residency , Ampang , Selangor Darul Ehsan , Peninsular Malaysia , her interesting fowyer has been stackedwith hundreds of boxes which is ready for delivery and shipment to certain destination and location throughout the country and abroad in order to full fill and satisfy the buyer and client need and requirement . Each week they have to complete at least 100 boxes of multiple jumbo of foods , cuisines , cookings , biscuits , services , starters , confectionaries , starters and others . Now as we know it’s really tricky to predict the GI values of any food without laboratory testing . NOT so long ago, the BBC invited four top British chefs to cook a banquet for 60 - out of rubbish .

How busy of Mastura , this Iron and Kind Lady always fullfill any Jumbo Invitation and Marvelous Request for a Kind Talks and Nice Speech how to cook and make Luxury Foods , Outstanding Cuisine and Marvelous Biscuits throughout Malaysian Peninsular . Prominent Cookeries can earn as much as thousands of cash for making a speech and discussion .

In directly , she able to sell and market her products and cookings in a basis that assure and confident that the industry and business has the Precious and Nice Future and Prospect .